moms rule
from fossilesque@mander.xyz to science_memes@mander.xyz on 23 Jan 2025 00:44
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dariusj18@lemmy.world on 23 Jan 2025 01:05 next collapse

A wild Danzig approaches

thefartographer@lemm.ee on 23 Jan 2025 01:41 collapse

Whoops, I’m suddenly bleeding

[deleted] on 23 Jan 2025 02:18 next collapse

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Deebster@infosec.pub on 23 Jan 2025 02:18 next collapse

I was thinking that it’s now 81 mothers ago, but then I got distracted by the fact that there was no year 0AD and now I’m thinking that roughly 80 is good enough.

sinkingship@mander.xyz on 23 Jan 2025 02:32 next collapse

So that’s about 13,000 homo sapiens mothers?

shalafi@lemmy.world on 23 Jan 2025 02:38 next collapse

I knew my great-grandmother, few people do. My great-great-grandmother is an ancient picture on the wall of my dead grandmother’s house, from a time when photography was new, a scant few years past daguerreotypes.

4 mothers back is all I can summon, only remember 3.

TheBat@lemmy.world on 23 Jan 2025 04:10 next collapse

4 mothers back is all I can summon,

What’s the spell?

_stranger_@lemmy.world on 23 Jan 2025 04:29 collapse

“I’m feeling hungry and mildly pregnant”

stinerman@midwest.social on 23 Jan 2025 04:45 collapse

I knew two of my great grandmothers (yay for really young parents!). I know I met two others but didn’t really know them.

I was told that I met my great great grandmother once when I was a toddler but I don’t remember it. She died at age 99.

chonglibloodsport@lemmy.world on 23 Jan 2025 02:46 next collapse

That’s not a well-founded assumption. The average age of first birth was only 21 as recently as 1970. Go back a few hundred years and it’s way younger than that. Many women throughout history became mothers as soon as they were able (right after the onset of puberty). Many cultures had rites of passage into adulthood for boys and girls of that age. There was no such thing as adolescence.

Catoblepas@lemmy.blahaj.zone on 23 Jan 2025 03:33 next collapse

In Western Europe at least back to the early medieval period it was common for anyone who wasn’t nobility to have their first child around 22. The younger you are the more likely you’re going to have serious (fatal, back then) complications. It was the nobility that was marrying off barely pubescent kids.

bobs_monkey@lemm.ee on 23 Jan 2025 03:41 next collapse

It was the nobility that was marrying off barely pubescent kids.

Same as it ever was.

Sabre363@sh.itjust.works on 23 Jan 2025 03:59 next collapse

Could we say (for no other reason than I’m stoned and it sounds good) the rough average mother-age is 18-ish? Then there would be roughly ~110 mothers since Jesus cheated and respawned for our sins.

chonglibloodsport@lemmy.world on 23 Jan 2025 04:32 collapse

What was it like outside of Western Europe?

Catoblepas@lemmy.blahaj.zone on 23 Jan 2025 04:34 collapse

No idea, I’m not as read up on that. It would shock me if it was significantly different just because risk of death from complications is a hard biological line the younger you get, pre-modern medicine.

chonglibloodsport@lemmy.world on 23 Jan 2025 04:45 collapse

There are definitely cultures who have practiced polygyny to get around this issue. Some still do today, for example in many different countries in Africa where people still practice a pastoral life.

Comment105@lemm.ee on 23 Jan 2025 05:55 collapse

I don’t see how polygyny gets around the issue of risk of death from pregnancy.

Polygyny would get around the issue of men getting killed.

chonglibloodsport@lemmy.world on 23 Jan 2025 06:03 collapse

Polygyny is where one man has many wives.

Kayana@ttrpg.network on 23 Jan 2025 11:32 collapse

Edit: This first point was wrong, but the second point still stands.

Polygyny wouldn’t solve the aforementioned problem if we suppose that the birth rate of men and women is roughly the same. If one man has many wives, some of whom even die, then several other men won’t have any wives.

chonglibloodsport@lemmy.world on 23 Jan 2025 15:09 collapse

The birth rate of XY babies is actually slightly higher than XX babies. On the other hand, babies with higher testosterone tend to have weaker immune systems and so are more susceptible to infant mortality from disease.

Otherwise, I’m not sure what the problem is with men who don’t have wives? They simply don’t reproduce. Throughout history men have reproduced at a lower rate than women. In polygynous cultures it’s only the very powerful and wealthy men who have many wives. The poor and powerless men have few or none.

Kayana@ttrpg.network on 23 Jan 2025 16:24 collapse

Huh, really? I thought there were slightly more women than men, but maybe that depends on the economies etc.

As for your second point, yes, exactly. They don’t reproduce. So it doesn’t matter if many men get one wife each, or if a few men get many wives each, the number of pregnancies won’t change, and the number of pregnancy-related deaths won’t change either. So (again), I don’t see how polygyny helps in this situation.

chonglibloodsport@lemmy.world on 23 Jan 2025 16:55 collapse

I guess I’ve forgotten what the problem was exactly. High maternal mortality? How is that not solved by having many redundant wives?

Comment105@lemm.ee on 24 Jan 2025 00:21 collapse

You don’t just “have many redundant wives”. It starts out roughly 50/50 from birth no matter what you do.

You either have more women by having a lot of single men, or a lot of dead men, or by taking women from other places.

chonglibloodsport@lemmy.world on 24 Jan 2025 00:58 collapse

Yes I mentioned that earlier in the thread. Polygyny = some men have many wives, others have none.

Comment105@lemm.ee on 24 Jan 06:30 collapse

Which does nothing to help with the issue of mothers dying from pregnancy, unless there’s something more that you know?

chonglibloodsport@lemmy.world on 24 Jan 13:19 collapse

Multiple wives => redundant wives. Solves the issue of mothers dying in pregnancy. The more wives you have, the more you expect to survive to be able to care for the children. Having only one wife, on the other hand, means all your eggs are in one basket (apologies)!

Comment105@lemm.ee on 24 Jan 18:42 collapse

There is no such thing as redundant wives in a total sense.

There’s only kidnapped wives, or dead or single men. That’s the only way you get a relative surplus. The amount of women remains the same whether you do polygyny or not.

chonglibloodsport@lemmy.world on 24 Jan 18:56 collapse

I’m sure there’s some kidnapped wives historically. Some wives bought from their fathers. But there’s also plenty of women who have consented to marry a man who already has a lot of wives. The issue has to do with resources and political power.

A rich and powerful man has a lot of resources available for his wives and children. A poor and weak man has few or none. Your chances of escaping starvation and death are much higher with the rich and powerful man.

Notice that I made zero mention of love. Marriage for love is a luxury of modernity, of wealth and power overflowing. You didn’t marry for love in the days when a bad year meant there was no food to last through winter.

Comment105@lemm.ee on 25 Jan 04:04 collapse

So yeah, okay. I see your point.

HonoraryMancunian@lemmy.world on 23 Jan 2025 06:58 next collapse

First births yes, but what about average age? Our ancestors may have been second born, third born, eighth born etc

chonglibloodsport@lemmy.world on 23 Jan 2025 07:23 collapse

High maternal mortality meant that having more than about 7 children per woman was rare. Total fertility rate was about 4.5 to 7 in the pre modern era. Population growth was low due to infant and early childhood mortality though.

If you start having children at age 12, you can have a child every year and reach 7 children by age 20. Without contraceptives, people weren’t having such large multi-year gaps between children like we do now.

agamemnonymous@sh.itjust.works on 23 Jan 2025 14:13 collapse

Based on my own genealogical research, the trend I typically saw was 6-8 kids, between 18 and early 30s, about 20% of which died. Plus consider that some of those will be sons, and some daughters never become mothers, 25 is pretty spot on for the average age for a mother-to-mother generational gap.

pseudo@jlai.lu on 23 Jan 2025 22:24 collapse

Yes abd the field of genealogy, the size of a generation is given as 25 years. I believe specialists of genealogy who had to defined this metric did think about the way couple had kids in the past.

emeralddawn45@discuss.tchncs.de on 23 Jan 2025 07:00 next collapse

Maybe 23 would be a better average, but even if wvery women in your line gave birth at 12.5 that only doubles the other. And its fair to say not every mother would have been a first child. Also many still would have been born later than 25, so it probably evens out pretty well.

Acamon@lemmy.world on 23 Jan 2025 07:58 next collapse

As the other commentator says, medieval Europe was mostly early twenties. Studies of stone age remains suggest a first birth age average of 19.5 and contemporary hunter gather societies have a comparable average. Sexual activity generally begins earlier, during adolescence, but the most “reproductively successful” age for beginning childbearing has been shown to be around 18-19. Also, this age at first birth isnt “Average age of a child’s mother” as many women would have multiple kids over their life, so the average sibling would have a much older mother at birth than the firstborn.

Its important to remember that puberty has shifted massively since industrialisation, "menarche age has receded from 16.5 years in 1880 to the current 12.5 years in western societies". So the post-puberty fecundity peak, that use to happen 17-19, when women are fully grown enough to minimise birth complications, now happens at a disressingly young 13-15. Not only is this a big social yuck for most western societies, but it’s reproductively unideal, because of the complications linked to childbirth at that age.

Fritee@lemmy.world on 23 Jan 2025 10:23 collapse

Huh, that’s interesting. Do we know why the menarche age has receded?

shneancy@lemmy.world on 23 Jan 2025 12:25 collapse

if you click that second study link it’s exactly about that

TheWolfOfSouthEnd@lemmygrad.ml on 23 Jan 2025 11:13 collapse

Don’t they say teenagers/adolescence were invented in the 50s as that was the first time people were able to afford to allow their kids to carry on education?

Sergio@slrpnk.net on 23 Jan 2025 04:18 next collapse

Yeah only 2 generations ago, LGBT people were considered mentally ill. 4 generations ago women were considered unfit to vote. 8 generations ago about half the US though it was OK to own slaves. It takes a while for ideas to die out. That’s why US elections turn out the way they do.

Shawdow194@fedia.io on 23 Jan 2025 05:12 next collapse

Two steps forward. One step back

Comment105@lemm.ee on 23 Jan 2025 05:44 next collapse

Wonder how long it’ll take before we get to step forward again. As far as I’m seeing, we’re in for a long ride back. Not just for 4 years.

dumbass@leminal.space on 23 Jan 2025 06:02 next collapse

It wouldn’t surprise me if Trump made it President for life.

sharkfucker420@lemmy.ml on 23 Jan 2025 06:24 next collapse

I pray america doesn’t last his lifetime or that it dies with him

xilliah@beehaw.org on 23 Jan 2025 09:47 collapse

No way that would last long, it’s just not how Americans tick

Sergio@slrpnk.net on 23 Jan 2025 06:18 next collapse

This has happened before. Even after Abu Ghraib Bush Jr won re-election. Even after Iran-Contra the Republicans won re-election.

But the fact is that they do not have the answers. They can only take things for themselves, and hope that people give up.

sevenapples@lemmygrad.ml on 23 Jan 2025 08:06 collapse

Civilian Drone Strike Obama and Palestinian Genocide Joe aren’t better

VoterFrog@lemmy.world on 23 Jan 2025 12:39 collapse

The American people are pretty fickle. It won’t take long for them to become unhappy with the Republican party. Of course once that happens and you and I are celebrating “Yay! We got rid of the fascists!” they’ll be going “Hmm… These other guys are pretty uninspiring. Maybe we should try fascism again.”

* There’s a big asterisk here that this is all predicted on elections continuing unabated. Which is not a given.

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thespcicifcocean@lemmy.world on 23 Jan 2025 17:08 collapse

two steps forward, random.randint(1,4) steps back.

flora_explora@beehaw.org on 23 Jan 2025 07:36 next collapse

Humanity isn’t progressing uniformly forward like this. Lgbtqia+ people were considered normal part of society by various cultures. Also Magnus Hirschfeld was an advocate for lgbtqia+ people a hundred years ago. Slavery has been transformed into modern slavery because the western world has found other, more concealed ways to force people into labor. Ideas may die out, but they will pop into people’s head again and again.

araneae@beehaw.org on 23 Jan 2025 07:59 collapse

And yet discussing progress in this manner can be a confort. All that you said was true… But what the person you replied said was also true. Two generations since fertilizer or two generations since we locked in Malthusian anarchy[please note I do not espouse Malthusianism]. Three generations since the worst war known to man and three generations that did not experience that kind of war. Glass half full, glass half empty. It’s correct to question the myth of unstoppable progress thru which you can just kick your feet up and relax. But equally is it important to keep perspective remember that, yeah, eight generations ago chattel slavery was a bonafide institution and four generations women were unfranchised. Things get better and they get worse. We make progress and it is wiped away. We still keep trying.

TheWolfOfSouthEnd@lemmygrad.ml on 23 Jan 2025 11:16 collapse

They were institutionalising out of wedlock mothers aswell, at least in the UK and Ireland.

Philomena…very good film.

Ulvain@sh.itjust.works on 23 Jan 2025 04:35 next collapse

Let’s push it one step further and frame history since agriculture, 9500 years ago, against the upper limit of a human lifetime now, about 100 years. This would mean recorded times started only less than 100 human lifespans ago. Bleh

BudgetBandit@sh.itjust.works on 23 Jan 2025 06:08 next collapse

Depending on the religion, yes. Otherwise it‘s 12 years per mother, 14 if you’re late.

fibojoly@sh.itjust.works on 23 Jan 2025 06:35 next collapse

You would have a lot more death during pregnancy / childbirth though.

OneWomanCreamTeam@sh.itjust.works on 23 Jan 2025 12:56 collapse

That’s also assuming you’re the first born of the first born of the first born, and so on. And the further back you go, the more individual kids the average mother is likely to have. After all, you had to have like 12 kids just so 3 of them would make it past 9.

So your greatx12 grandmother might’ve started having kids at 15, but she still might not have had your ancestor till years later.

SkunkWorkz@lemmy.world on 23 Jan 2025 10:55 next collapse

And if everyone of your ancestors was unique (so no inbreeding) 80 mothers ago there would had to be 2^80^ = more than 1.2 septillion people on the planet

OhNoMoreLemmy@lemmy.ml on 23 Jan 2025 12:34 next collapse

And if your grandmother had wheels she would be a bicycle.

ILikeBoobies@lemmy.ca on 23 Jan 2025 17:52 collapse

Village bicycle*

Illecors@lemmy.cafe on 23 Jan 2025 15:24 collapse

This assumes a single child per set of parents, doesn’t it?

SkunkWorkz@lemmy.world on 23 Jan 2025 15:39 collapse

No I’m talking about the amount of ancestors in the 80th generation back not the total amount of ancestors. It doesn’t matter how many children each set of parents had for that number.

slazer2au@lemmy.world on 23 Jan 2025 11:34 next collapse

The lengths Americans will go to in order not to use the metric system is insane.

prettybunnys@sh.itjust.works on 23 Jan 2025 13:07 next collapse

I am interested in learning about this metric time.

Dasus@lemmy.world on 23 Jan 2025 14:54 next collapse

Oh?

“450 mothers ago” is roughly 363,500 megaseconds ago.

To be fair, measuring that in moms seems more intuitive.

letsgo@lemm.ee on 23 Jan 2025 15:26 next collapse

It’s also about the speed of light in millifortnights (2.9e8), within a 4% error margin.

prettybunnys@sh.itjust.works on 23 Jan 2025 19:13 next collapse

I’d like mothers represented metric tbh, I’m in a meeting and not able to do the math rn but if anyone else can oblige …

Dasus@lemmy.world on 23 Jan 2025 19:22 next collapse

You can probably propose a new SI-base unit of “a mother”, but what does it measure?

“Metric” just essentially comes from “metering”. People confuse “metric” with “decimal”, which is sort of the point of the person I replied to. While metric time technically exists insofar as you just use seconds as the base unit, omit minutes and hours and just do SI-prefixes, the French did also try decimal time, but it was just horrible.

So if “mother” was the base unit and it measured something, in this instance time, the advent of agriculture was roughly four hectomothers ago. Or 0.4 kilomothers, if you will.

prettybunnys@sh.itjust.works on 23 Jan 2025 19:27 collapse

Mother as a unit of time.

Ty

Edit the mother epoch presumably is the same epoch as all time, just … related to the mothers as above.

Ty

Dasus@lemmy.world on 23 Jan 2025 19:34 collapse

But see we already got the base unit of a second for time. But for generations, perhaps?

One kilomother would’ve been the early modern human, roughly. Ten kilomothers ago homo sapiens was just coming into being. A hundred kilomothers ago homo erectus would’ve just been coming into existence. A megamother ago we would’ve been diverging into great apes.

angrystego@lemmy.world on 24 Jan 19:39 collapse

Motheric

needthosepylons@lemmy.world on 23 Jan 2025 23:33 collapse

From your link, I rabbitholed to there and found gold

bluewing@lemm.ee on 23 Jan 2025 15:46 next collapse

The French tried to impose “metric” time way back in the day. Even they learned that was a bad idea and quietly dropped it. The solar system seems to prefer it’s base12 time.

I think it maybe helped give rise the the saying: “The French follow no one. And no one follows the French.”

thespcicifcocean@lemmy.world on 23 Jan 2025 17:07 collapse

metric time actually was a thing, and it sucked so nobody used it.

itslilith@lemmy.blahaj.zone on 23 Jan 2025 22:22 collapse

It didn’t suck exactly, time is just so much more prevalent than other units that switching to a new system was even more contentious. Current time is just as arbitrary (although maximizing for maximum number of prime factors is pretty nice, even if it doesn’t mesh nicely with other metric units)

Overshoot2648@lemm.ee on 24 Jan 2025 01:05 collapse

Metric really missed out by not being dozenal. SMH

Bearlydave@lemmy.world on 23 Jan 2025 13:34 next collapse

What is the conversion from imperial mother to metric mother? About 1:1.26?

dnick@sh.itjust.works on 24 Jan 2025 00:07 collapse

They were discussing converting the AU to 1 ‘your mom’ as a better frame of reference, but France wouldn’t sign on

Couldbealeotard@lemmy.world on 23 Jan 2025 15:35 next collapse

This is framed like 80 generations is a small number, but that’s huge. Culture and civilization moves so quickly that even 3 generations ago life is barely recognisable. I can’t even imagine what life was like 40 generations ago.

Donkter@lemmy.world on 23 Jan 2025 16:22 collapse

Many people don’t realize that the amount of change our culture goes through in a lifetime is unfathomable historically. Before the 1800s it took a good decade for news to truly travel around to everyone in a region, and that was considered timely if it happened at all. Farming, hunting, homemaking, war, stayed exactly the same for dozens of years at a time and changes were usually made abruptly due to conflict before stagnating again.

humorlessrepost@lemmy.world on 23 Jan 2025 23:58 collapse

But after enough stagnation, at least we’ll get the great scattering.

samus12345@lemm.ee on 23 Jan 2025 17:32 next collapse

25 is too old for most mothers the farther back you go.

ILikeBoobies@lemmy.ca on 23 Jan 2025 17:51 next collapse

Not even that far back, modern medicine is wonderful

emptiestplace@lemmy.ml on 24 Jan 2025 01:25 collapse

Enjoy it while it lasts.

silasmariner@programming.dev on 23 Jan 2025 22:46 collapse

www.openaccessgovernment.org/…/151423/ nah it’s pretty much been the average age of mothers for a very very long time indeed

Kilamaos@lemmy.world on 23 Jan 2025 23:11 collapse

So from your article, it seems to say the opposite

The female average age of conception is 23.2, AND this includes a recent rise, so it would be even lower than that when considering older times

Also, it’s unclear if the average also accounts for the fact that there is are significantly more child being given birth to in the very recent past, which would skew the number way up

silasmariner@programming.dev on 23 Jan 2025 23:34 next collapse

I don’t think 23 is wildly off from 25, and honestly this is just the first one I found that mentions it, I’ve seen various different sources for different reasons in the past. But the average is based on genetic mutations, and obviously in any given human it’s irrelevant how large a generation is as to how much genetic mutation is contributed by the generation. Like even if there are 8 billion people today, that doesn’t imply that you somehow got more generic inheritance from your parents than they did from theirs back when there were 6 billion people or whatever. Judging average to be the average per generation (a reasonable inference given the methodology) the last few years won’t make much of a difference in a timescale of 250k years

I can’t find the article I vaguely remember from a while ago, here’s another random one that has mothers in the bronze age ranging from 16-40ish researchgate.net/…/314262257_Bronze_Age_Beginning… although you can’t really infer much about averages from that.

Anyway yeah there have been periods in time when average age of mothers was younger, but generally if you look back on a long timescale it’s been older than people seem to assume. Seems to be quite common to have the notion that women all had children at 16 or whatever back in the day but not much to really bear that out that I can find.

RedAggroBest@lemmy.world on 23 Jan 2025 23:36 collapse

Every time I see people argue this I always wanna ask, are you considering that people don’t stop having kids after 1 or 2? I’d wager that most women had the majority of their kids around that 23ish mark when you include that lady who had 10 kids from 15 to 35

Fleur_@lemm.ee on 23 Jan 2025 20:48 next collapse

When numbers divide

pseudo@jlai.lu on 23 Jan 2025 22:16 next collapse

Do we have a community for genealogy?

Zhanzhuang@lemmy.world on 24 Jan 2025 01:30 next collapse

Some of my ancestors came to the United States on the Mayflower and that was only like 8 or 9 mothers ago.

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gandalf_der_12te@discuss.tchncs.de on 24 Jan 18:48 collapse

Yes also this diagram:

<img alt="" src="https://discuss.tchncs.de/pictrs/image/5554e3b2-6602-415c-829c-4e1076363f62.jpeg">

Gives you a clear sense of how quickly things are turning.

In a geological sense, all of humanity isn’t even a heartbeat.

angrystego@lemmy.world on 24 Jan 19:35 collapse

Yeah, I might not remember it exactly, but I’ve heard that about 9 out of 10 people of all our history haven’t died yet. Which can be neatly misinterpreted as a surprisingly optimistic chance of not dying.

gandalf_der_12te@discuss.tchncs.de on 26 Jan 18:40 collapse

haha yes, statistics is neat :)

Also, what would you do with infinite time?

angrystego@lemmy.world on 27 Jan 17:03 collapse

Probably the same as I do with finite time - stress myself about things I cannot influence. Or perhaps I’d finally have time to learn not to do that - it’s a task for several lifetimes, I’m afraid :)