Politically-engaged Redditors tend to be more toxic -- even in non-political subreddits (www.psypost.org)
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Politically-engaged Redditors tend to be more toxic – even in non-political subreddits::A new study links partisan activity on the Internet to widespread online toxicity, revealing that politically-engaged users exhibit uncivil behavior even in non-political discussions. The findings are based on an analysis of hundreds of millions of comments from over 6.3 million Reddit users.

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cheese_greater@lemmy.world on 11 Dec 2023 18:18 next collapse

None of us are unguilty, not one

skillissuer@discuss.tchncs.de on 11 Dec 2023 18:23 next collapse

they needed a study for that?

voidMainVoid@lemmy.world on 11 Dec 2023 19:29 collapse

It’s worth studying even things that seem obvious, because sometimes what seems obvious is wrong. And the only way you’re going to find out is if you study it.

Windex007@lemmy.world on 11 Dec 2023 18:25 next collapse

Really curious about the tool they used to quantify “toxicity/disruptive” comments. My initial suspicion would be that political commentary, regardless of human-perceived toxicity, might be biased toward “toxic” by an automated sentiment analysis.

In short: I am suspicious that automated tooling exists to reliably distinguish between toxic and non-toxic political discourse.

deweydecibel@lemmy.world on 11 Dec 2023 20:08 next collapse

We also have to deal with the fact that toxicity has become an almost meaningless label. The way we seem to apply it now, feels like we’d say there was a lot of “toxicity” around the time of the Civil Rights Movement, too. Or even the Civil War.

We’ve conflated “angry, hateful, bitter, disruptive, belittling” with “caring enough to get upset”. There’s been study after study trying to blame social media for the rise in “political toxicity”, and every last single one of them seems to want to sweetly ignore the context of the moment in time we’re living in.

People are acting volatile because there are a lot of volatile events happening that directly affect people’s lives. And all these high-minded discussions about how people online are so mean and rude, or how people don’t listen to each other anymore, consistently sidestep that very crucial piece of context.

So I ask, what do we mean by “toxic”? Because I have a strong feeling a good deal of women were being real “toxic” on June 24 2022. Why is the story not about why? And why does that deserve to be grouped in with the same toxicity comes from the people responsible?

thepiggz@programming.dev on 11 Dec 2023 21:10 collapse

I think you’re onto something saying toxic is a pretty unspecific term to use when talking about such things. Maybe it would be a better conversation to ask: when do the ends justify the means?

Windex007@lemmy.world on 11 Dec 2023 21:21 collapse

I’ll even step the conversation back a hot second to: do the means even result in the desired ends?

I’d argue (supported by every study ever done on the subject), that it doesn’t. The issue isn’t that you haven’t called your MAGA uncle a hillbilly redneck enough. No matter how many times you get called a woke liberal snowflake, I don’t think you’re going to genuinely re-think your position on building a wall.

If there IS an amount of verbal rage that could turn you into a MAGA, then by all means, disregard.

But… If there isn’t, and you genuinely care about changing outcomes, then I strongly challenge people to consider if “the ends justify the means” is predicated on an earlier faulty assumption that the means even generate the ends at all.

thepiggz@programming.dev on 11 Dec 2023 21:27 next collapse

Agreed. Always a good thought to have when one is considering going down that road. Is the future predictable enough to really expect that particular end?

jmp242@sopuli.xyz on 12 Dec 2023 00:53 collapse

I agree that I’ve heard a lot of the same studies. I wonder though about the nudge and shame effects however. By this I mean, we’re pretty sure peer pressure is a thing (or at least I haven’t heard of anyone disputing that in recent research). I’ve seen self-censorship and studies that seem to also show that works.

I don’t know if the world would be better overall if we went back to 1990s levels of people not taking conspiracy theories seriously, and it being a negative view from “the average person” if you were ranting that the earth was flat. That happened somehow - those were tamped down, and I’d argue it’s plausible that it was basically peer pressure.

The means might well not be to convince the MAGA uncle, but to influence his kids, your kids, and the rest of the family to treat him as “the crazy uncle” rather than a person to emulate. Similarly, while you’ll never convince hardcore woke or MAGA people they’re wrong, you might affect the wider view of what’s “normal” for others watching. We’ve all seen the alternative of not engaging / leaving leave the space to become a self reinforcing echo chamber.

Windex007@lemmy.world on 12 Dec 2023 01:12 collapse

Maybe?

I guess at this point, I think we’ve probably long since surpassed a saturation point. For anyone who could be shamed into change have been. For everyone who may see someone being shamed, they’ve already seen it.

And, for the relatively small number of people who are perhaps reaching an age where it might matter, is there a concern that they won’t be exposed to it if one person (say you) don’t run that M.O?

Being a loud angry voice is so… Easy. People convince themselves that roasting libtards or trumpets is somehow critical. Like, as if it’s what is keeping the other side in check. As if the hatred isn’t just a self-sustaining perpetual hate machine.

I’m honestly not that interested in that line of thinking.

I’m more interested in trying to understand people like Daryl Davis. That looks HARD… But actually results in actual positive outcomes.

Anything I think is preferable to just maintaining the status quo, teetering on a knifes edge where the stakes keep getting higher but the stalemate of which way things will break remains. I think it’s too important to do the “easy” thing if the easy thing isn’t likely to result in significant positive change

jmp242@sopuli.xyz on 12 Dec 2023 01:51 collapse

Oh, online IDK, I think it’d be hard to miss, but people do still end up in echo chambers. At home or in person? Who’s doing the questioning matters too. What your friends think can matter a lot - if everyone is quiet because they don’t want to become “part of the problem”, no one is part of the solution. “Friends don’t let friends drive drunk”. I’d say that might well apply to at least try to “Friends don’t let friends fall down conspiracy theories”, “become neo-nazis”, etc.

But given Daryl Davis, maybe we agree - the in person is way more important than online. But I will also say a lot of people report finding likeminded people online (in multiple contexts like religion, LGBTQ+, nerds, whatever) helpful in realizing “not everyone is different from them” and “not everyone thinks one way”. And if only the loudest voices are left online, then we only see extremes. If representation matters, so does moderate representations.

Windex007@lemmy.world on 12 Dec 2023 02:16 collapse

I for sure agree that a discussion between friends is critical, especially the moment they start down a rabbit hole. I will admit to roasting a buddy who starts saying that “Jordan Peterson has some good points”. I guess I don’t consider that “Toxic” because of the pre-existing relationship and context? Maybe that’s unfair of me.

It’s an interesting thought. It really goes back to the question of trying to define toxicity.

NuXCOM_90Percent@lemmy.zip on 11 Dec 2023 22:13 collapse

Didn’t check for their specific approach, but this is a pretty standard metric in research.

It mostly boils down to either full mechanical turk (crowd source people to mark whether a post is positive or negative) or generating training data through one. I think there is a Michael Reeves video where he demonstrated this while analyzing /r/wallstreetbets posts since he needed to fully understand all the jargon/stupidity. But the idea is the same. You use humans to periodically update what words/phrases are negative and positive and then have a model train on those to extrapolate.

But there are plenty of training sets and even models out there for interpeting. The lesser ones will see “asshole” and assume negative and “awesome” and assume positive. But all the ones worth using at this point will use NLP to understand that “My asshole itches” is not a negative comment but “It would be awesome if you played in traffic” is very negative.


Also, I am realizing “mechanical turk” sounds like it probably is rooted in racism. Quick google doesn’t make it seem like it currently is, but apologies if that offends anyone and would love an alternative term.

Windex007@lemmy.world on 11 Dec 2023 22:56 collapse

I did read the source, and they’re using a Google AI classifier product, “perspective AI”, and even in the description of the product, it raised questions about its suitability.

At this point, most people in the space are pretty comfortable with the idea that AI models don’t eliminate bias, in fact it can amplify it.

I’m not saying “there is no way to attempt to measure toxicity”, just that based on the specific design of this study, if the measure of toxicity was biased against ANY political discussion, that would be an alternative explanation to the results.

You should read the article, if not the study itself. Its design smells suspiciously like that of an honours thesis as opposed to a grad project. Not just because of the AI… Mostly by the way they defined what constitutes participating in political discussion.

NuXCOM_90Percent@lemmy.zip on 11 Dec 2023 23:08 collapse

I mean, from a quick test of Perspective using their web page, it is not flagging some pretty strong political statements (mentions of late stage capitalism, calling republicans fascists, accusing Democrats of turning the country into a communist nanny state, etc) and none of them are getting flagged. Whereas, if I tell that text prompt to “go fuck your mother”, it understands that is toxic.

Because… this is kind of a solved problem. There are inherent biases but the goal of this is not to figure out which black man we can frame for a crime. It is to handle moderation. And overly strict moderation means less money. So while there likely is a bias, it does not seem to be an overly strong one and probably actually reflects the perceived reality.

Honestly? It sounds like you don’t like the outcome so you are effectively saying “fake news”.

Windex007@lemmy.world on 11 Dec 2023 23:17 collapse

Honestly? It sounds like you don’t like the outcome so you are effectively saying “fake news”.

You must understand the irony in me warning about being careful about drawing conclusions, and you arriving at this conclusion.

What about the outcome would I even find objectionable? The outcome didn’t find a difference between right and left? I DO personally believe that political discourse has gotten extremely toxic. I DO personally believe that people who are politically active ARE in generally more toxic in general conversation. Every single thing in this article confirms what I already believe to be true

I STILL DO NOT LIKE THE STUDY, because I do not believe that the design results in data that necessarily supports the conclusion. I’m not going to give this study a hall pass on rigor because I agree with its conclusion.

Edit:

Also, on the topic of politics and Perspective AI:

Baseline Sentence: “No X could ever be as good a X as Y” Base values: X=CEO Y=Henry Ford

Test Sentence 1: X = CEO Y=Donald Trump +41% more likely to be toxic than baseline

Test Sentence 2: X = CEO Y=Joe Biden +37% more likely to be toxic than baseline

Test Sentence 3: Y = President Y=Henry Ford +61% more likely to be toxic than baseline

Test Sentence 4: X = President Y = Joe Biden +94% more likely to be toxic than baseline

Test Sentence 5: X = President Y = Donald Trump +102% more likely to be toxic than baseline

I gotta be honest with you: my results do not disprove my hypothesis that the system is intrinsically biased to skew any political sentences along the “Toxic” axis

SnotFlickerman@lemmy.blahaj.zone on 11 Dec 2023 18:26 next collapse

Political topics are also the topics that are most strongly gamed by political actors using Persona Management software to make it seem like their opinion is in the majority. The idea that people who participate in things such as “forum sliding” aren’t toxic in their interactions is absurd, so we’re left with assuming a large number of these toxic accounts aren’t actually real people.

I’m not saying people deep into politics can’t be toxic. Plenty of them are, sure. However, it’s in the interest of people with political power (especially politicians with politically unpopular ideas) to make regular people not want to participate in politics. One way you do that is to make all political people seem unhinged, angry, and just terrible. People wonder why hardly anyone votes in elections, this kind of stuff is why, and it’s not on accident that these folks seem like the majority.

I’m fully convinced the majority of them are bots trying to make politics in general seem more toxic than it actually is to dissuade more people from even wanting to be involved. The intent is to drive political apathy.


Sources:

US government developing Persona Management software in 2011: theguardian.com/…/us-spy-operation-social-network…

Eglin Air Force Base is most “Reddit Addicted City” in 2014: web.archive.org/…/get-ready-for-global-reddit-mee…

One of many research papers on Persona Management and Influencing Social Networks from Eglin AFB: arxiv.org/pdf/1402.5644.pdf


Helpful Reading Materials:

The Gentleperson’s Guide To Forum Spies: cryptome.org/2012/07/gent-forum-spies.htm

pelespirit@sh.itjust.works on 11 Dec 2023 18:45 next collapse

100% agree with you. The worst part is the bots are getting better and better. I have a policy that you respond once to clarify and then walk away. These are for obvious bad actors, but now they’re seeming more and more like decent people with a flawed idea until you keep talking and realize it’s a bot. I don’t know how to counteract that.

voidMainVoid@lemmy.world on 11 Dec 2023 19:27 next collapse

I don’t know how to counteract that.

Simple. You don’t. When I’m debating, I’m usually not trying to convince the person I’m debating with. I’m trying to convince a disinterested third party who reads the exchange later.

pelespirit@sh.itjust.works on 11 Dec 2023 19:39 collapse

I completely agree that it’s for the later people, it’s just a waste of time for me when it’s become a lengthy thread that nobody is going to read anyway.

The other thing they do is a bot attack of taking what people are saying, changing it, and then posting a lot of them to bury comments that they don’t want others to see. Not sure how to counteract that either.

EatATaco@lemm.ee on 12 Dec 2023 13:12 collapse

How do you know they’re actually bots? 90% of the time, when I’m debating with someone who is passionately defending their position, they’ll at some point accuse me of being a bot or a shill. I also can’t recall any time I’ve debated someone and have been convinced they are a bot.

I’m just skeptical as it’s a convenient ad hominem.

SuddenDownpour@sh.itjust.works on 12 Dec 2023 14:55 next collapse

I have the same question. How do you distinguish an advanced enough bot from a genuinely dumb person?

aidan@lemmy.world on 12 Dec 2023 16:39 collapse

Or “smart” person. There are almost certainly bots who espouse beliefs that align with yours too.

lagomorphlecture@lemm.ee on 12 Dec 2023 17:18 collapse

To be totally honest with you, I wouldn’t for one second be surprised if the bots are programmed to accuse humans of being bots.

alvvayson@lemmy.world on 11 Dec 2023 19:16 next collapse

Up until a few weeks ago, it seemed these bots were mostly absent on Lemmy.

But recently, I have noticed they have arrived here, too.

I fully agree with your analysis.

deweydecibel@lemmy.world on 11 Dec 2023 19:50 collapse

In what way? Lemmy has been very political from the start. It arguably got less-so after the influx of redditors.

What are you seeing in the last month or so that makes you think there’s something more abnormal happening than usual?

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ericisshort@lemmy.world on 11 Dec 2023 22:51 next collapse

If “trying to find common ground and building from there” is normal human behavior, then normal behavior is in the minority these days. I haven’t had an in-person conversation with someone that disagrees with me that is even remotely attempting to find common ground in a very long time. It’s definitely not typical in my experience.

ChunkMcHorkle@lemmy.world on 12 Dec 2023 02:39 next collapse

The funny thing is that I read this comment, and then looked at your post history completely expecting to find an obvious troll*, but no. You are consistently and commendably courteous in your disagreements, even as you collect an Olympian number of downvotes on what seem to be very innocuous statements.

*Every time someone says something along the lines of others not wanting to find commonality with them, I look at their post history. I am only rarely disappointed, lol

ericisshort@lemmy.world on 12 Dec 2023 02:56 collapse

I do appreciate you saying that.

I try to be kind unless someone’s being an absolute turd, but I’m also trying to be less afraid to leave downvoted comments that I genuinely believe in. I kinda had a problem with deleting any heavily downvoted comments in my Reddit history, so Lemmy’s obfuscation of karma has been quite helpful in that regard, and it’s nice to see that some of those comments helped subvert your assumptions.

ChunkMcHorkle@lemmy.world on 12 Dec 2023 03:10 collapse

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ericisshort@lemmy.world on 12 Dec 2023 03:34 collapse

It is definitely difficult to gauge a stranger’s tone. Not sure what it is exactly about the way I write, but people often suspect I’m trolling when I’m being genuine.

As for the karma, I suspect that the total on the desktop site will be going away soon. It used to exist in the apps I use, but one day comment and post karma disappeared from Voyager, and recently Avelon dropped their summed total karma altogether. At first I resisted losing the counts, but after asking around, I learned that showing the totals is being actively discouraged to devs of the various apps because it’s thought to lead to unhealthy user behaviors. The more I thought about it, the more I agreed I’m guilty of a lot of those behaviors as a result of my 15 years on Reddit, so I’ve since tried to embrace its absence.

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EatATaco@lemm.ee on 12 Dec 2023 13:37 collapse

I haven’t had an in-person conversation with someone that disagrees with me that is even remotely attempting to find common ground in a very long time.

It’s because it’s not only untrue, but almost the exact opposite of the truth. Humans tend to defend themselves when they find their beliefs threatened, not open themselves up.

This is the heart of a lot of lots of couples therapy: learning how to express your discontent without making it about your partner. If interested, read up on “I” statements. And we’re talking about people in committed relationships shutting themselves down to each other. Imagine how easy it is to do when you label the person as “the other team.”

EatATaco@lemm.ee on 12 Dec 2023 13:29 next collapse

Normal human behaviour is to try and find common ground and build from there.

This is wildly untrue. Even outside the confines of the Internet. People tend to circle the wagons when their beliefs are threatened, rather than try and find common ground. Which is why the way we debate ( and I’m debating now) is so ineffectual. You need to guide the person to come to the conclusion themselves (which is why the Socratic method is so widely respected), not tell them they are wrong and you are right and here’s why. It’s a low success method.

On the Internet, it’s even less true. Now I’m just a dehumanized bunch of words, not even an individual, so your mind is rushing to try and figure out to categorize me so you can make assumptions about me. This just compounds the above issues.

Your argument seems to rest on the claim that this is atypical human behavior. This is a false assumption, and thus conclusions based on it are faulty.

aidan@lemmy.world on 12 Dec 2023 16:44 collapse

Argumentative accounts that personally attack and downvote, even though there is absolutely zero reason - there wasn’t even any disagreement on the main points, just anger on minor details.

That’s been here for a while. When I became a mod of c/politics some users stalked my profile to use it as proof my me being a terrible choice. They’re evidence was me not having a degree in political science, disagreeing with them on some issues, and having a complicated relationship with my mom. I said simply check the modlogs, and there haven’t been any complaints since.

thepiggz@programming.dev on 11 Dec 2023 19:23 next collapse

Intriguing. I don’t totally know what I think about this argument. A purposeful initiative to make politics toxic to get people to stop paying attention. It’s not one I had totally considered before. You think that’s really going on?

I have had many experiences with real people not on the internet that seem to fixate largely on politics and believe so fervently that they are right that they allow themselves to become toxic. I always thought it was a kind of inconsistent latent belief in utilitarianism combined with overconfidence.

SnotFlickerman@lemmy.blahaj.zone on 11 Dec 2023 19:38 collapse

I’m not saying those people don’t really exist, there are tons of them out there for sure, but we also have extensive evidence of governments doing this.

GCHQ in the UK had JTRIG using many forum disruption techniques.

There’s also the Five Eyes and how they use information sharing to essentially do an end-run around being able to spy on their own citizens. Technically, they’re not spying on their own citizens, a foreign nation is, they just so happen to have an agreement with that foreign nation to get info on their own citizens.

The US definitely engages in this kind of stuff on foreign nations as well. They tried to create a social media service for Cuba to influence Cuban politics and do information gathering.

Do either the UK or the US have to spy on their own citizens if they can rely on each other to run influence campaigns in each others countries? The US had to apologize to Angela Merkel for tapping her phone.

Israel has many different programs aimed at managing the PR of the state of Israel online. From paying college students to speak positively of Israel online to having “Think Tanks” use teams of people to influence Wikipedia.

We know that Hacking Team was selling their surveillance software to oppressive regimes, who were definitely using it to oppress the population. If they’re using these kind of tools, they’re using online disinformation tools as well.

So once again, there’s tons of real life absolute maniacs when it comes to politics. There’s also incentive for governments around the world to run influence campaigns for pennies on the dollar with digital tools in the digital world.

thepiggz@programming.dev on 11 Dec 2023 20:28 collapse

I think you’re right that there are people out there trying to manipulate and influence social media - I mean even that platforms themselves do this to a certain extent.

The idea that they purposely try to make it toxic to push the more intellectually-honest, emotionally-controlled people out of the conversation is the interesting part to me.

This particular facet feels less like intentional manipulation and more like a side-effect of our platforms and how they function.

deweydecibel@lemmy.world on 11 Dec 2023 19:48 next collapse

Are there any sources on this from the last decade?

Because I’m not sure if you noticed, but 2016 was kind of a big moment for politics and it triggered a lot of anger and controversy. Politics on social media are a very different thing now than they were in 2011/2012. Which is to say nothing of the well-documented uptick in foreign troll farms and manipulative content sorting, which may have been present in the early 2010s, but no where near the degree it was in the latter half, and still is today.

It’s also worth pointing out this uptick in “political toxicity” is mirrored in real life. You can’t blame the protests and increasingly violent altercations in real life on some psyops trying to make people not engage in politics.

And frankly…if the goal is to get people turned off from voting, they’re failing. Turn out has been going up.

homesweethomeMrL@lemmy.world on 11 Dec 2023 20:04 collapse

Why, what happened in 2016? Did 46% of registered voters lose their goddamned minds and vote to put an entirely incompetent and demented convicted fraud and rapist sociopath who wears clown makeup in charge of the federal government or something? Why would that increase the fervor of fucking social fucking media for fuck’s sake jesus goddamned christ on a busted motherfucking crutch!!!

Sorry. You were saying?

aidan@lemmy.world on 12 Dec 2023 16:38 collapse

Found a reddit mod with a dozen plus accounts. Made a new account to disagree with me, I pointed it out, and he denied it, but never used that account again.

It was probably just someone with no life, but I’d feel better about the world if he were being paid for it.

Boozilla@lemmy.world on 11 Dec 2023 18:36 next collapse

I think most people have a friend or relative like this. They simply must bring their political views into every single conversation, all of the time. If you try to deflect or even outright tell them you don’t want to discuss politics, they will invariably say something like “but everything is political”. It’s exhausting. Then they wonder why they stop getting invited to things.

WorkIsSlow@lemmy.world on 11 Dec 2023 18:44 next collapse

Your apathy is part of the problem.

Yes, I am that friend/relative.

Boozilla@lemmy.world on 11 Dec 2023 19:16 collapse

Not wanting to discuss politics 24x7 in all contexts and settings is not “apathy”. I vote. I participate. I donate money. I discuss politics at appropriate times and places.

Wanting to dominate all conversations with your political opinion is pathological.

WorkIsSlow@lemmy.world on 11 Dec 2023 20:34 collapse

It was meant to be a self depreciating joke, but now I can’t help myself. I think this topic ends up having everybody involved make a bunch of assumptions about each other before it begins.

However, I have experienced people say that they, “don’t want to get political,” right after being confronted for saying something misinformed, hurtful, etc. It can be weaponized as an excuse to avoid self reflection.

I know that isn’t the case for everybody, but I have seen, “don’t make things political,” used as, “don’t bring in politics at odds with my own.” It’s often not even recognized by that person as being hypocritical. Sometimes our own politics can become the default in our mind and everybody else’s view is the “political” one.

Boozilla@lemmy.world on 11 Dec 2023 20:49 collapse

Apologies for missing the joke. And I agree that it can be a dodge in some contexts, too. Also agree that the word can be used incorrectly.

People who use “political” incorrectly like that remind me of the old South Park depiction of Michael Jackson, calling everything “ignorant”.

SnotFlickerman@lemmy.blahaj.zone on 11 Dec 2023 18:56 next collapse

en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_personal_is_political

Boozilla@lemmy.world on 11 Dec 2023 19:19 collapse

Yes, this is missing the point. I’m not saying politics should never be discussed. I’m not saying politics and personal lives exist in separate spheres. I understand that things like economic policies and laws impact individuals’ lives in profound ways.

I’m saying people who bring it up constantly and never give it a rest are obnoxious.

Copernican@lemmy.world on 12 Dec 2023 18:23 collapse

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Grangle1@lemm.ee on 11 Dec 2023 18:36 next collapse

This just in, the sky is blue and the Pope is Catholic.

SnotFlickerman@lemmy.blahaj.zone on 11 Dec 2023 18:37 next collapse

but if the Pope shits in the woods, and no one is around, does it make a sound?

prex@aussie.zone on 12 Dec 2023 12:02 collapse

Depends how many bears he has eaten.

schnurrito@discuss.tchncs.de on 11 Dec 2023 20:36 collapse

The sky is currently black where I am, stop spreading disinformation

NuXCOM_90Percent@lemmy.zip on 11 Dec 2023 19:02 next collapse

No shit?

If you are discussing the exploitation of labor and people are bitching and moaning that “lazy devs” are taking too long to release a patch, you aren’t going to grin and say how awesome of a burn that was on those losers who just got purged in a layoff. Because social and political issues permeate everything we do. Hell, we have people who are insisting that one of the biggest social media platforms on the planet re-platforming alex jones is “not tech news”.

Which gets to the other aspect. Reddit, and Lemmy, has a tendency to never consider the source of a problem. Going back to the lazy devs example: Most moderators have zero issue with “This is trivial to implement and they are wasting their time making trailers or adding new skins”. It doesn’t violate any rules (and, even if it does, you can’t gather that from just the single comment). But when someone points out how toxic that narrative is? Suddenly this becomes a flame war (because nobody can accept they might not be perfect) and the entire branch gets nuked… except that initial lazy devs commentary is still there.

Sometimes that is intentional by the moderators (the lemmy.world 3d printing board has some good examples of that…). Mostly it is just because… being a moderator sucks and it is rare that a burst of traffic doesn’t involve a disproportionate burst of flaming and trolling. So suddenly they are inundated with angry people from all around whereas last week they had just a few porn posts a day.

But pretty much all of this is an extension of “tone policing”. Someone saying the world would be a better place if you and everyone like you were executed or enslaved? Better be careful how you respond. If you don’t smile enough, then YOU are the problem. So lighten up and learn that both sides have a point and maybe you should be the bigger person and only breathe 20% of the day instead of 90%.

SnotFlickerman@lemmy.blahaj.zone on 11 Dec 2023 19:06 next collapse

Counterpoint: Violently unhinged MAGAts who literally make worshipping Trump and “owning the libz” their entire personality.

I’m not saying you’re not correct (you are), but I’m saying there’s other types of political toxicity out there.

RobotToaster@mander.xyz on 11 Dec 2023 21:01 collapse

I’m not sure how you got from devs being laid off and delayed patches to executions?

pacology@lemmy.world on 11 Dec 2023 20:19 next collapse

This sounds like the textbook definition of a collider. Meaning that being toxic is the likely “root cause” and that toxic people are more likely to engage in political discourse (because it’s likely going to be toxic anyways? Idk) and they are more likely to comment toxic stuff in general.

Fades@lemmy.world on 12 Dec 2023 05:02 next collapse

Good points, add to that troll farms and bots

idiocracy@lemmy.zip on 12 Dec 2023 05:23 next collapse

it’s not only that, remember the point of news articles is to make engagement too and one tactic is to fuel people with rage, even by the means of fake news, and given the internet anonymity, u get anger fueled keyboard warriors

prex@aussie.zone on 12 Dec 2023 11:24 collapse

I haven’t heard of a collider in that context before. Could you mean a confounder?

RobotToaster@mander.xyz on 11 Dec 2023 21:08 next collapse

I unfollowed all the political subreddits I used to follow except stupidpol and red scare for exactly this reason.

HelixDab2@lemm.ee on 11 Dec 2023 21:24 next collapse

See also: hexbear, lemmygrad.

MaxVoltage@lemmy.world on 12 Dec 2023 01:35 next collapse

True

idiocracy@lemmy.zip on 12 Dec 2023 05:17 next collapse

See also: lemmy.world

Lemminary@lemmy.world on 12 Dec 2023 15:07 next collapse

No! We are the exception to all the rules. You dingus!!1!

Goferking0@ttrpg.network on 12 Dec 2023 22:33 collapse

Seriously I see so much worse coming from those accounts

paradiso@lemm.ee on 12 Dec 2023 05:17 next collapse

Cancer

SomethingBurger@jlai.lu on 12 Dec 2023 11:40 next collapse

Far right spaces in general.

inb4 hexbear and lemmygrad are far left

They are not. Tankies are far right.

PRUSSIA_x86@lemmy.world on 12 Dec 2023 12:26 next collapse

no

webadict@lemmy.world on 12 Dec 2023 13:44 collapse

Authoritarianism and enforced heirarchical structures (as well as support for such regimes) are very much a right-wing philosophy. They also espouse the same “both sides” philosophy that conservatives push (which is a justification for maintaining the status quo, and another right-wing position.)

HelixDab2@lemm.ee on 12 Dec 2023 13:06 next collapse

Tankies are far left authoritarians. The left/right spectrum refers primarily to economics.

SomethingBurger@jlai.lu on 12 Dec 2023 14:16 next collapse

Tankies aren’t leftists. They defend genocidal and authoritarian regimes, which are inherently right wing.

HelixDab2@lemm.ee on 12 Dec 2023 14:59 next collapse

Tankies are leftist because the oppose private property and favor the state controlling the means of production rather than individuals or corporations.

You’re confusing authoritarian communism with social democracy and anarchism. Stalin was a leftist, he was also genocidal and authoritarian.

aidan@lemmy.world on 12 Dec 2023 16:36 collapse

which are inherently right wing.

Why?

SuddenDownpour@sh.itjust.works on 12 Dec 2023 15:01 next collapse

There are political traditions that see the left/right spectrum as a “How hierarchical do you think society should be” question, where being sexist or intolerant of LGBT would be inherently right-wing because they’re positions that are advocating for forms of social hierarchies, and therefore would claim that an anarcho-capitalist, even if still right-leaning, is much less right-leaning than a nazi.

aidan@lemmy.world on 12 Dec 2023 16:36 collapse

But where is the basis for defining it that way?

I think a more clear and commonly excepted interpretation would be basically more collectivist vs more individualistic. The issue with that for some people is that would make Nazism left wing, and nobody wants the bad guys on their side.

lolcatnip@reddthat.com on 12 Dec 2023 17:21 collapse

It matches the historical usage of the terms. As far as I can tell the definition has barely changed in modern times; a lot of people have just tried to redefine them based on their own misunderstanding.

lolcatnip@reddthat.com on 12 Dec 2023 17:17 next collapse
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aidan@lemmy.world on 12 Dec 2023 16:34 next collapse

What does right wing mean to you?

What about left wing?

Tertle950@lemmy.basedcount.com on 12 Dec 2023 21:11 collapse

congratulations on instigating a semantics argument

definitions are SO fun to disagree over!

Yerbouti@lemmy.ml on 12 Dec 2023 13:33 collapse

AkA Chappo Trap House. I’ve never received so much hate from a community (expept on the_donald maybe). My crime? I think South Park is fun.

uriel238@lemmy.blahaj.zone on 12 Dec 2023 05:14 next collapse

I’m political as fuck.¹ While I try not to be toxic, I will sometimes call out aberrant opinions or counterfactual assumptions when I see them and that can lead to toxic exchanges.

So, yeah, I think the virtue of having strong opinions about things controversial is going to inspire heated exchanges more frequently.

¹ Sex in the US is very political right now.

Alpha71@lemmy.world on 12 Dec 2023 05:37 collapse

I will sometimes call out aberrant opinions or counterfactual assumptions when I see them

But why though? You’re not going to change anybody mind online.

nadir@lemmy.world on 12 Dec 2023 11:49 next collapse

You never changed your mind because of something you read online?

Alpha71@lemmy.world on 12 Dec 2023 12:15 collapse

I’ve never had someone who is arguing with me on the internet change my mind.

MrPoopbutt@lemmy.world on 12 Dec 2023 14:09 collapse

Have any of your views changed as you learned new things?

tias@discuss.tchncs.de on 12 Dec 2023 14:50 next collapse

My experience has been that people on the Internet don’t try to teach you new things. They just attack your person, make unsubstantiated claims, or make overly broad references like “go read a book.” Even when you just ask questions without making any claims of your own, they will assume that you’re implying some disagreement with them instead of taking the question at face value. It’s extremely frustrating.

uriel238@lemmy.blahaj.zone on 12 Dec 2023 20:45 collapse

Yes. A lot of folk are unfamiliar with critical thinking processes, and are glad to adhere to positions that affirm their base prejudices. Especially when FOX News or OAN main a broadcast itinerary of affirming culture-war rhetoric. Curiously no one pretends FOX or OAN are trustworthy sources, even for uncontroversial news stories.

But that isn’t everybody on the internet, and I think the dialog is improved by those willing to counter assertions contrary to facts, and generalizations based on stereotypes and hate rhetoric. We’re not just arguing with a frightened bigot, but telling every marginalized soul reading they are seen, and they are valid.

And yes, it can be extremely frustrating given we only see resistance to the end of every exchange. We never see the moment of revelation from resistance to doubt from apathy to empathy. The human brain takes time to change its mind, to notice the leopard bites in nearby faces, to see how justifications are dangerous when applied to people they actually care about. We all have a mother in Hackensack, New Jersey.

tias@discuss.tchncs.de on 13 Dec 2023 06:25 collapse

Yes, I did not mean to give the impression that it is everybody on the internet. There has even been a couple of times after arguing for a while that people have come off the spell and literally said something like “I thought you were just a troll, I didn’t understand you were asking the question genuinely”. But these are exceptions, unfortunately. I wish good faith was the norm.

Alpha71@lemmy.world on 13 Dec 2023 00:27 collapse

Of course, but some keyboard warrior shouting at me in the comments never has.

Surreal@programming.dev on 12 Dec 2023 12:10 next collapse

Open-minded people learn and change their opinion when presented with facts and discussions

Alpha71@lemmy.world on 12 Dec 2023 12:17 next collapse

The key words there are “open minded.”

Kichae@lemmy.ca on 12 Dec 2023 13:43 collapse

The person one responds to isn’t always the audience for the response.

aidan@lemmy.world on 12 Dec 2023 16:33 collapse

When people are toxic to dissenters online they don’t think they’re open minded people

webadict@lemmy.world on 12 Dec 2023 13:08 next collapse

Because people other than the two arguing read that and learn things. If someone states factually wrong or hurtful information about, say, trans people, I would rather they be corrected than someone think that trans people are anything other than human beings being human beings from that prior comment.

Alpha71@lemmy.world on 13 Dec 2023 00:34 collapse

OK this to me is the perfect example. You say trans people are human. (a sentiment which i agree with BTW). How has you arguing with someone online changed ANY off the current anti trans bills out there?

Instead of arguing online and accomplishing nothing maybe instead you should be doing real work in the real work to stop that from happening.

But no, people will bitch and complain online, and then throw there hands up in the air and say “well at least I tried.” when nothing changes.

webadict@lemmy.world on 13 Dec 2023 01:03 collapse

So, are you suggesting that people aren’t allowed to complain about things, are you suggesting that complaining about things cannot be done in tandom with works that better the lives of trans, or are you suggesting that people that actually want trans people to have better lives don’t get to complain about things? Because every one of those implications are dumb as shit, especially if you have any historical knowledge of civil rights movements.

No, instead you’ve taken a stance historically used to oppress civil rights movements, using a false dilemma to essentially proport that one cannot talk about the issue because that is wasting time not doing some unknown thing about it.

And by virtue of your own post, why are you arguing with people about people arguing instead of helping trans people get the rights they deserve?

Alpha71@lemmy.world on 13 Dec 2023 01:28 collapse

why are you arguing with people about people arguing instead of helping trans people get the rights they deserve?

I’m not arguing. I’m responding.

webadict@lemmy.world on 13 Dec 2023 02:58 collapse

Definitionally, you argued.

RememberTheApollo_@lemmy.world on 12 Dec 2023 13:16 next collapse

Maybe you don’t change them, but they shouldn’t get a free pass and be the only voice present.

Kichae@lemmy.ca on 12 Dec 2023 13:42 collapse

Leaving harmful public opinions unchallenged presents the illusion of widespread agreement.

DragonTypeWyvern@literature.cafe on 12 Dec 2023 20:26 next collapse

You’re also arguing for the audience, not necessarily the person you’re arguing with.

Alpha71@lemmy.world on 13 Dec 2023 00:28 collapse

How?

AVincentInSpace@pawb.social on 12 Dec 2023 06:26 next collapse

In a turn of events that comes as a surprise to precisely zero Reddit users…

Something_Complex@lemmy.world on 12 Dec 2023 07:38 next collapse

I think it’s the same here on Lenny, ik because I’m one :(

Cocodapuf@lemmy.world on 12 Dec 2023 15:18 collapse

Right! Big surprise, politically engaged people are generally angrier. And angry people can be a bit of a dick.

That all checks out…

Kusimulkku@lemm.ee on 12 Dec 2023 10:27 next collapse

I’d imagine the same is true for Lemmy and politically engaged people (at least online) overall.

paholg@lemm.ee on 12 Dec 2023 12:14 next collapse

I’m not so sure. The study discusses specifically people who engage in partisan subreddits, which is not the same as being politically engaged. It also uses an AI to grade toxicity, which surely mischaracterizes many interactions.

For example, I have been in communities of a non-political nature, where political discussions occur. These are often about real issues that affect real people in the community, and yet there are people complaining about political content.

To complain about political content is, at best, a very privileged take, demonstrating that you are in a position where politics do not affect you much. At worst, it is actively hostile behavior with the goal of continuing the status quo and shutting down discourse. I would call most of these kinds of comments “toxic”, and yet the rhetoric is usually fine, so I doubt an AI would agree.

Kusimulkku@lemm.ee on 12 Dec 2023 12:24 next collapse

I’d say if you are politically engaged, the likelihood of you being in a political internet community is fairly high.

To complain about political content is, at best, a very privileged take, demonstrating that you are in a position where politics do not affect you much.

Could just be that they don’t care for politics in that community. Time and place for everything and it seems some feel the time and place for politics is everywhere all the time. It can be tiring. I don’t remember what year it was that pretty much every single place was talking about immigration politics. Important topic for sure but a meme community about funny road signs isn’t the place for heated soapboxing about closing down the border.

Kichae@lemmy.ca on 12 Dec 2023 13:41 collapse

The thing is, what a politically engaged person thinks of as “politics” and what a disengaged one does probably has limited overlap. People probably aren’t bringing the Tories or the Republicans up in a D&D community, but bring up race portrayal or representation for disabled people and watch the sparks fly.

Kusimulkku@lemm.ee on 12 Dec 2023 14:37 collapse

People probably aren’t bringing the Tories or the Republicans up in a D&D community, but bring up race portrayal or representation for disabled people and watch the sparks fly.

I wouldn’t bring up either up during a game. Unless I was prepared for some serious eye rolls and not being invited again lol.

And unfortunately people do bring up the former during all kinds of shit. Politic brains are wild.

lolcatnip@reddthat.com on 12 Dec 2023 17:13 collapse

People in a D&D subreddit aren’t playing D&D; they’re talking about playing D&D. Those are completely valid topics to bring up.

Kusimulkku@lemm.ee on 12 Dec 2023 17:55 collapse

Depends on the commynity. Some just don’t want politics being brought into them. If it’s allowed/not forbidden then by all means.

SCB@lemmy.world on 12 Dec 2023 13:56 collapse

Say you don’t like Linux here and tell me how many people call you a bootlicker lol

Or even better - “piracy is theft” or “ads keep YouTube free and are thus good.”

You don’t have to believe it. Just toss it up in a thread as a test and enjoy your next 12-36 hours.

franklin@lemmy.world on 12 Dec 2023 14:20 next collapse

Just saying things “as a test” is indistinguishable from defending it online. Things like body language, tone and intent do not come across as easily.

That being said toxic people exist everywhere on the internet it’s a flaw in our biology, we haven’t adapted to communicating this way yet.

That being said there’s a difference between a bad take like your above examples and condoning oppression and marginalization as some political groups have do.

One deserves to be defended vehemently.

SCB@lemmy.world on 12 Dec 2023 14:28 collapse

Just saying things “as a test” is indistinguishable from defending it online.

Yes this is why it works as a test.

That being said there’s a difference between a bad take like your above examples

Only one of my statements is an opinion (I like a plug and play OS I don’t need to configure because I spend all my “customize” energy on my PC itself). The others are objective facts that make people sad.

This is what I mean by toxicity, and how I know for a fact the test will work

franklin@lemmy.world on 12 Dec 2023 16:25 collapse

Testing people like that is not a great if your looking to dissect a viewpoint sounds more like being inflammatory, especially with your word choice.

Opinions can be bad takes. See > your examples.

SCB@lemmy.world on 12 Dec 2023 16:32 collapse

I express exactly one opinion there, and it isn’t a “take” at all. “I don’t care for Linux” is not an inflammatory statement except to an absolute zealot.

franklin@lemmy.world on 12 Dec 2023 17:02 collapse

Sorry guess I should have been more clear. All of your examples are opinions as in not demonstrably fact.

I don’t particularly mind any OS one way or the other I’ll use the best tool for the job. What I’m saying is a bad take are your proposed scenarios on piracy and ads which there’s no evidence to support, in fact there’s a lot to the opposite.

This would make what you said an opinion and by my point of view a “bad take”. Does that make you wrong to express them? No and I never said as much.

So I guess I just lost the thread on your point because all of those are just opinions. I was just using a colloquialism. Which brings me back to my point that usually when I see people get heated it’s because people are being bigoted.

SCB@lemmy.world on 12 Dec 2023 18:07 collapse

All of your examples are opinions as in not demonstrably fact

Two of my 3 examples are not opinions lol. Ads do keep YouTube free. Piracy is theft. Those are facts. You can justify your blocking or ads or piracy however you want but that is not an argument against these facts.

But we’re getting into the weeds since the point is the insanity with which people respond, so frequently, and not the disagreement itself.

homicidalrobot@lemm.ee on 12 Dec 2023 19:10 collapse

LOUD INCORRECT BUZZER: youtube reports it annually earns ~14.07 B from ad revenue and over 20B from subscriptions across youtube and youtube music. You are guessing and passing it off as “fact, not opinion”. Ads make youtube almost half as much as the ungodly amount of money they make, and google as a whole could support youtube without ads just fine, they would just make less money (Google’s throughput is extremely negative, most of their money is not put back into the company).

Your perspective sucks and your opinions are based on misinformation and guesswork.

SCB@lemmy.world on 12 Dec 2023 19:47 collapse

Imagine using as your argument “no only half of their money comes from ads,” lol

Dude a company can’t just lose half their revenue. Be serious.

franklin@lemmy.world on 12 Dec 2023 20:54 collapse

Still isn’t the legal definition of theft. It can morally be in your opinion

SCB@lemmy.world on 12 Dec 2023 20:55 collapse

That’s because we’re discussing ad blockers in this chain

Cethin@lemmy.zip on 12 Dec 2023 18:09 collapse

The Linux thing, I doubt you’ll get toxic comments. You’ll probably get comments asking why to try to help, though that can always come off as demeaning. If you say Linux is bad, that’s different. You’ll likely get a lot of comments explaining why that isn’t true and that it’s a pretty ignorant take.

For the other comments, “piracy is theft” is, again, an objective statement, not a value judgement. Saying that is to say people who disagree are wrong. Same with the YouTube one. Change “good” to “useful” would probably be better way to say it.

There’s a difference between comments that judge other people (which will likely get a strong response) and comments that judge the subject. It’s something people frequently fail with. Even if it’s worded well, people will often take judging something they agree with as an attack on their character, which is also not useful. Humans aren’t logical beings.

SCB@lemmy.world on 12 Dec 2023 18:56 collapse

Saying that is to say people who disagree are wrong.

They are wrong. People putting their own values (“I’m not a thief!”) into an objective statement are the people who are incorrect. You can justify piracy, but it is literally always a form of stealing. People here are very pro-piracy and, cool, so am I, but it’s stealing.

Point conceded on the YouTube thing tho, it’s inexcusable to be loose with my language in a post I’m using as an example.

Humans aren’t logical beings.

To my great dismay. I’d have avoided a lot of issues if I were more logical lol

homicidalrobot@lemm.ee on 12 Dec 2023 19:02 next collapse

Copying is not theft. When you steal, you leave one less left.

SCB@lemmy.world on 12 Dec 2023 19:46 next collapse

Yes I’ve gone around this little carousel many times with people trying to justify it for themselves. You don’t need to justify anything to me. I’m not your dad.

Blue_Morpho@lemmy.world on 12 Dec 2023 20:41 collapse

Like not paying for a haircut if the stylist didn’t have any customer at that time anyway. It’s a victimless crime!

(Btw I have a large Plex server. So yeah, I’m a hypocrite.)

Cethin@lemmy.zip on 12 Dec 2023 21:42 collapse

That took labor. Copying bits doesn’t take labor. We don’t have people working in a bit mine.

Cethin@lemmy.zip on 12 Dec 2023 21:41 collapse

I don’t totally disagree, but I don’t agree either. Saying there isn’t a semantic argument to be had is terribly ignorant. If you own a car and I take it, sure that’s theft. If you own a car and I take a picture of it, that isn’t theft. I created something new that didn’t effect the thing you own.

In the same way, creating a copy of bits of data does not effect the original item someone owns. It does not remove anything from them. If you’re not taking anything from them, how can it be theft? Theft requires something to be taken.

SCB@lemmy.world on 12 Dec 2023 22:08 collapse

I have near-zero interest in this conversation, but one can absolutely steal a service. You’re taking from them because to consume the product you were expected to pay, and their entire infrastructure revolves around that.

How you feel about it is your business, but it is very cut and dry.

Cethin@lemmy.zip on 13 Dec 2023 03:56 collapse

Sure, but it’s a product not a service.

It’s not as cut and dry as you seem to think. If it is cut and dry, I’d say it’s to the opposite of your opinion, but I don’t think it is.

lazynooblet@lazysoci.al on 12 Dec 2023 18:44 next collapse

As is on Reddit, the number of non-political posts with top level comments slandering republicans, seemingly totally off topic, is disappointing. I’m not American, so I don’t understand why so many conversations are simply “republican bad”. It seems obsessive.

Duamerthrax@lemmy.world on 12 Dec 2023 20:30 next collapse

Because republican politicians what to limit the freedoms of other people. Many republican voters don’t, but they vote for “their side” anyway. Do I need to respect the republican voter that’s personally tolerant, but still votes for intolerance?

tacosplease@lemmy.world on 12 Dec 2023 20:38 collapse

Because conservative bs affects almost everything in our lives. Not pointing it out just enables it to keep happening.

Duamerthrax@lemmy.world on 12 Dec 2023 20:27 collapse

Why limit online? Someone got into a shouting match with me because I didn’t agree with what fox news told him. When I realized what he had dragged me into, I walked away.

KairuByte@lemmy.dbzer0.com on 13 Dec 2023 05:17 collapse

Because toxicity tends to falter in reality. Not to say there is no toxicity offline, there absolutely is. But you’ll find most of the toxic people have small dog syndrome. They’re all bark until they are face to face with someone. Excluding mob mentality of course.

Dkarma@lemmy.world on 12 Dec 2023 14:01 next collapse

Ur mad cuz of things the TV said about trans kids and classroom litter boxes. I’m mad cuz your political party is a brainwashed cult bent on fascism.

We are not the same

abuttifulpigeon@lemmy.world on 12 Dec 2023 15:10 next collapse

I can understand someone feeling different than how they were born, it’s all fine and dandy.

But another species?

[deleted] on 12 Dec 2023 15:18 next collapse

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marzhall@lemmy.world on 12 Dec 2023 15:24 next collapse

The litter boxes were emergency bathrooms for shooter lockdowns. Some clever villain tied it to “identify as” rhetoric, and politicians ran with new ammo to beat up their current punching bag.

FlickOfTheBean@lemmy.world on 12 Dec 2023 15:30 next collapse

  1. you don’t have to understand it, you just shouldn’t be a legislative genocidal asshole about it (not that that’s what you’re doing, but that’s what republicans seem to do to anything they think isn’t their slim sliver of a definition of “normal”)

  2. if you’re talking about furries, to my layman’s understanding of the subculture, that’s not how the vast majority of furries relate to themselves. From what I’ve seen, it’s not that they are the animal itself, they are the aspects of the animal, and those things are just little icons that they’re like boosting because they resonate with it. That said, there are at least a few people who DO feel that way, but I’m pretty sure they have a special category name (ferals? I think that’s what they’re called but I could be wrong, this is some deep lore I picked up years ago). If they do have that special name and I’m not just making that part up, then that implies that most furries do not feel that way about themselves.

But, acknowledging the existence of people like that at all does validate your question in my mind. I don’t really understand that extreme either. My only point is that most furries are what you would likely consider “normal”, they just have a particular hobby. It’s no more nefarious or odd than being into gender bending cosplay. You’re just taking something (yourself rather than an anime/video game character) and twisting it into something artistically different (a fursona instead of a cosplay outfit).

…no I did not intend to write that much defending furries but here we are lmao

LapGoat@pawb.social on 12 Dec 2023 16:15 collapse

hello, furry here.

Therians are people who believe they are an animal, they are technically separate i think but theres a big overlap. generally decent folks that get teased too much.

the big tell with the litter boxes thing is furries sell out some of the largest convention centers every year and extensively share photographs of the place. no litterboxes in sight.

Duamerthrax@lemmy.world on 12 Dec 2023 17:22 collapse

Not even Rainfurrest?

joel_feila@lemmy.world on 12 Dec 2023 19:36 collapse

Yeah just adult diapers there

Cethin@lemmy.zip on 12 Dec 2023 18:01 collapse

It’s not a thing. The OP is giving an example of how their media misleads them and uses fear-mongering about differences in people to keep them in line.

systemglitch@lemmy.world on 12 Dec 2023 22:22 collapse

Two sides of the same coin, I barely see a difference, you both invoke hate and make the world worse.

Edit: This comment makes it clear the truth hurts. You should look at yourselves for what you really are.

Dkarma@lemmy.world on 13 Dec 2023 00:11 next collapse

Clown take of the year, bot, congrats.

systemglitch@lemmy.world on 13 Dec 2023 00:23 collapse

Hey look, a moron I get to block! Thank you for showing me your toxicity.

KingThrillgore@lemmy.ml on 13 Dec 2023 06:32 next collapse

Enlightened centrist horse shit

systemglitch@lemmy.world on 13 Dec 2023 14:10 collapse

Ignorant peon exposed.

AVincentInSpace@pawb.social on 13 Dec 2023 09:23 collapse

I feel our anger is justified when the right’s thought leaders tell their followers bigoted things they know to be false because it makes them money

kandoh@reddthat.com on 12 Dec 2023 14:19 next collapse

I like to argue with people about politics. The internet is the safest place to do so.

Sorgan71@lemmy.world on 12 Dec 2023 15:00 next collapse

I like to tell people who are serious about politics that I boned their mother.

Chadus_Maximus@lemm.ee on 12 Dec 2023 16:55 next collapse

Doing my best to change this. I am extremely toxic without engaging in political behavior.

onlinepersona@programming.dev on 12 Dec 2023 17:02 next collapse

The first step is knowing there is a problem. Kudos.

Squizzy@lemmy.world on 12 Dec 2023 18:40 next collapse

I’m similar, I wouldn’t say I’m very toxic but I’m like stressed and determined in regular conversations. Struggling to just have friendly chats without being a know it all prick

jwt@programming.dev on 12 Dec 2023 21:36 collapse

Doing the lord’s work.🙏

pinkdrunkenelephants@lemmy.world on 12 Dec 2023 17:01 next collapse

In other news, water is wet.

Linkerbaan@lemmy.world on 12 Dec 2023 18:43 next collapse

Some people just want to grill

AnneBonny@lemmy.dbzer0.com on 12 Dec 2023 20:11 next collapse

toxic people are toxic

DragonTypeWyvern@literature.cafe on 12 Dec 2023 20:24 next collapse

Politics leads to stress, stress leads to anger, anger leads to people saying “KYS, fascists, or I’ll do it for you.”

Blue_Morpho@lemmy.world on 12 Dec 2023 20:37 collapse

Kys?

misophist@lemmy.world on 12 Dec 2023 20:39 next collapse

“Kiss yourself”. Or maybe something similar, but more violent.

stackPeek@lemmy.world on 13 Dec 2023 09:36 collapse

Kiss yourself

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KingThrillgore@lemmy.ml on 13 Dec 2023 06:31 collapse

Krill Yesterday Software

1847953620@lemmy.world on 13 Dec 2023 10:23 collapse

Kentucky Yeeted Salmon

snek@lemmy.world on 12 Dec 2023 20:56 collapse

I found myself becoming a lot more toxic the past few weeks, but the carpet bombing of Gaza has gotten me exceptionally angry. A lot of Zionist content is deliberately false and provocative. Not an excuse though.